Saturday, April 30, 2016

Priorities

At the end of the day ... is it more important to meet the needs of your child(ren)?  Or, concern ourselves with how our actions will be viewed by others?  It's important to set priorities when raising children ... priorities that encompass what we want our children to know are the most important aspects of life.

Monday, April 18, 2016

Teen Years

Teen Years are difficult for all teens ... trying to figure out who they are & how thye fit in.  Add to those challenges, a history of losses.  The list of thoughts/questions an adopted teen has have just increased tenfold.  Trace their steps back & create a list of thoughts/questions that you might have if you were in their shoes ...  This will help to increase understanding of what they are going through.

Sunday, April 10, 2016

Children Need a LifeBook

All children could benefit from a LifeBook.  However, for adoptive children it really helps to put the puzzle pieces of their life together for them.  What is a LifeBook?  It is anything you want it to be ... a photo album, scrapbook, etc.  It should include copies of important adoptive paperwork, earliest photos, pics of the caregiver handing you your child, pics of the orphanage & possible friends, your earliest meetings & beyond.  It's never too late to create a LifeBook.  I would encourage doing it together; great attachment activity.